Excommunicating Your Ex

Jessica asks: “I am remarrying after a divorce. Is it okay for me to invite my ex-husband to my wedding?”

Dear Jessica: The guidelines of etiquette say “no.” If you are maintaining an amicable relationship with your ex-husband, especially if you had children together, the “rule” is yours to “break.”

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