RSVP Now (Please): How to Get Your Wedding Guests Off Their Lazy Bums

The Wedding Guru Judy Lewis fields this week’s wedding questions. Today: Yes or no? Be diplomatic when inciting a response from less than enthusiastic wedding guests

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Ever hear of the expression, “Forewarned is forearmed?” This week’s bride has been given advanced notice of her soon-to-be in-laws’ penchant for, well, slacking. What should she do?

Dear Wedding Guru: “My fiancé warns me that his family is notorious about responding to invitations. (Apparently, many of them simply assume that, somehow, we’ll know that they’re coming to our wedding — even if they don’t send back the RSVP!) How do I handle family members who sit on the invitation like this?”

(See answer on next page)

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Tying the knot shouldn't put knots in your stomach, so whether you're the blushing bride, hubby-to-be, or even a wedding guest, The Wedding Guru Judy Lewis can answer all of your wedding-related questions.

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