More from The Wedding Guru

Wedding Traditions: Receiving Line

Is the receiving line really necessary in this day and age?

(page 2 of 2)

The Wedding Guru says: As is the case with most wedding customs, a receiving line is not written in stone — and is not absolutely necessary. What is necessary is that you and your new spouse take the time to meet and greet every guest. A receiving line is a great way for the bride and groom to introduce guests to one another. In my opinion, that’s the minimum amount of time you should spend with each guest and a great way to make sure that you don’t miss anyone as you cruise through the room.

Some couples are concerned about the amount of time that a receiving line “takes away” from the affair, so here are several things you can do in order to minimize that problem:

Consider having a smaller receiving line after the ceremony. Traditionally this includes the bridal couple, their parents, and all the attendants. With a smaller receiving line, you can cut back to just the two of you and your parents.

After the ceremony and before the bridal party recessional begins, you can exit down past the rows of seats, followed by your attendants. Sse that opportunity to say “hi” and give the guests an opportunity to congratulate you.

Set up your receiving line at the spot where guests exit the cocktail hour. You and your beloved can greet them as they file from the cocktail hour venue into the reception room.

In advance of your wedding, you can practice what you will say. Be brief, but pleasant. A predetermined greeting can save you time.

If you decide to forgo all these alternatives, it bears repeating that — at some time during your reception — you must take the time to stop at each table and thank your guests for coming and allow them to congratulate you!

» More on wedding traditions
» More from The Wedding Guru
» Submit a question to the Wedding Guru
» Hudson Valley Weddings 2013


Edit Module
Edit ModuleShow Tags
Edit ModuleShow Tags Edit Module
Edit ModuleShow Tags

Your to-dos before the I-dos

About This Blog

Tying the knot shouldn't put knots in your stomach, so whether you're the blushing bride, hubby-to-be, or even a wedding guest, The Wedding Guru Judy Lewis can answer all of your wedding-related questions.

This blog hails from, the one-stop resource for services and products, promotions and specials, a Regional Bridal Show schedule, Wed Shop, and links to money-saving and wedding-related Web sites.

Edit ModuleShow Tags Edit Module
Edit Module