Wedding Invitation Faux Pas: My Future Wife Invited Her Exes to Our Wedding

A groom-to-be is alarmed to find his bride’s ex-boyfriends on their invitation list



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The Wedding Guru answers: I’m with you. I think she can find closure in a much better way — one that doesn’t hurt your feelings. It sounds like she’s trying to send a signal to those other men that it really is over. If it hurts you, you need to make it very clear that you are not okay with this. I’ll even go so far to say that, if she still refuses to change her mind, you might want to think about what your future relationship will be like.

Readers, is this good advice? What would you tell our groom?

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Congratulations — you're involved in a wedding! Tying the knot shouldn't put knots in your stomach, so whether you're the blushing bride or hubby-to-be, an attendant or a guest, Wedding Guru Judy Lewis can answer all your need-to-know questions about your nuptials.

Judy Lewis is the founder of HudsonValleyWeddings.com, the one-stop resource for services and products, promotions and specials, a Regional Bridal Show schedule, Wed Shop, and links to money-saving and wedding-related Web sites. In her spare time, Judy loves to compose poetry and create collages. She currently resides in Kingston with her husband and business partner, Jon.

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